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Meet My Business Coach–literally!

Me Ra Koh

Meet my wonderful and amazing business coach, Karen Buckley!

Karen has been working with me for just over a year. She is based in San Francisco, and I am based in Seattle. Our sessions are all via phone and email. When we did our Sonoma workshop, Brian and I made sure to schedule a late flight home so we could meet Karen in person. I had to personally give this woman a hug for ALL the many things she has taught me and done for our business in the last year. Isn’t she beautiful–her wonderful spirit is right there.

The first thing Brian asked me when we got in the car after dinner was “What was it like to finally put a face to Karen?” Without hesitation I said, “It was like icing on the cake!” We had a wonderful dinner with Karen, so wonderful we almost missed our flight home.

One of the things we talked about was all of you! (This is where it gets fun for some of you! :))

I told Karen about four emails I’d received regarding the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit.

Over the last few months of releasing the kit, we’ve had incredible emails/feedback on how much women love the kit, like the wonderful comment recently posted in the customer reviews on our Refuse site. BUT…but…these four random emails had been stirring inside me. All from different women, but all expressing a similar point.

Now before I share any more with you, let me just be candid for a minute. What I’m about to share makes me feel incredibly vulnerable, and I’ve thought a lot about whether or not to share any of this. I don’t know if my vulnerability in sharing comes from being a people pleaser, recovering perfectionist, who knows…but I value all of you so deeply, and I think I need to risk sharing. So that being said…

The four emails I received from different women who bought the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit expressed feelings over the price being to high for this particular kit because there are so many books on the market for moms these days. There was also expressed desire of wanting forms or spreadsheets on how to manage/balance their time in a “spreadsheet” fashion.

Before releasing the Mom’s Kit for sale I had gone back and forth with Brian and Karen on how to price the kit. Karen asked me a question that really hit home. It went something like this…Even though you aren’t giving legal forms in this kit, isn’t your experience, all the counseling, business coaching, etc hold just as much dollar value as the legal forms? I believe our life experiences have equal if not more value than the concrete linear things in life. This is why we all decided to price the kit as the same price as the others.

But I really sat on these four emails. I understood the point that if there is a saturated market of “survival type books for moms”, this decreases the value of the topic for everyone. I also heard these women feeling like their was definite Soul and Spirit in the Mom’s 101 Kit, but they wanted more Forms. I believe that Soul, Spirit and Form is a magical combination that must not be ignored. This felt like a valid request.

So Karen and I put our heads together on how we can remedy these requests. We decided to add more value to the Mom’s 101 Kit for those of you who have bought it as well as future moms who are going to buy it.

(Is this post getting to long, or are you still hanging in there with me? :))

We are going to have a special, private forum on the new Refuse to Say Cheese Forum that will be only accessible to moms who have purchased the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit. On this private forum, Karen Buckley will be our guest columnist! Once a month she will join our community and assign exercises, forms, and practices to those of you surviving moms.

The objective will be to help us grow in our feminine wisdom, and go even deeper in the challenges we face. Some practices/exercises will be quite challenging and others will be simple in nature. But Karen Buckley (my business coach who specializes in coaching women CEO’s of Fortune 500 companies) is going to collaborate with me so we can continue to give to you once a month on the new forum! How is that for adding value and form to the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit!! (Are we moving in the right direction for those of you who purchased the kit?)

This private forum with Karen will have it’s own special name: Wise Woman 102: Beyond Survival into Thriving! Do you like the title? Karen’s idea, and I love it!

To be a part of Wise Woman 102, you have to first start by purchasing and reading the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit (which is 30% off for the next few days…fyi). Karen and I will be using the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit as the foundation for Wise Woman 102. If you’ve already bought the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit, you will soon be notified on how to gain access to this beautiful forum. We are still ironing out details, but keep an eye out in the next week or two for an email from us in regards to Karen!

Phew…do you know how much I treasure all of you?

xoxo, Me Ra

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  1. Amie says:

    I cant wait MeRa – I loved your Moms Survival 101 Kit. It was so informational and now this… This will be awesome! You continue to give and share and we all appreciate it MeRa… Thank You! You have been such an inspiration.

  2. Heather says:

    Thank you! THANK YOU MeRa! You are fantastic and an inspiration. The Mom’s Survival Kit has been an amazing gift and now this forum will totally be “icing on the cake.” I cannot wait to see it!

  3. sharon says:

    How cool is that!!!!??

  4. Cathy says:

    Me Ra,

    WOW! That’s amazing news! What a great opportunity to learn and share our experiences even more! Thank you–can’t wait to see it!

  5. Wendy says:

    Great idea Me Ra! Can’t wait for the forums to go up.

  6. Connie says:

    Hi MeRa – I just wanted to confirm for you that I think your wisdom is valuable and so agree with the advice of your business coach that is it as valuable if not more than the legal documents and forms. Good advice from someone who has done it and is successful goes a long way. I have personally seen the value you have added to people’s lives, mine included. That in itself is priceless since it continues on. You give much of your wisdom away on a daily basis on this blog and have many faithful readers who depend on it.

    I have not purchased this kit, but I am sure it is priceless, like you.

  7. Marianne says:

    Me Ra…you make me smile! I so admire your courage.

    It’s an amazing gift to be able to use your life experiences to improve the quality of others. Your sheer willingness to continue to share not just the ups but also the downs…and how you use each and every challenge and triumph to make you stronger is truly an inspiration. I can’t thank you enough for putting yourself out there; it’s a gift that I’m grateful for and I know so many others are too. 🙂

    I’m super excited about the add on to the kit! What a fantastic idea; can’t wait!

  8. Do you know how much the world treasures YOU? You’re such a gift to the photography community and to women in general! Thanks for lifting us up so much! You kick ass, girl!

  9. Ria says:

    Me Ra,
    This sounds like such a faboulous idea! Can’t wait to be part of it. I for one, received your Mom’s 101 kit and feverishly devoured every piece of information. So inspirational and comforting for all of us women/moms heading into the unknown. And now this forum…makes the package even sweeter. Thank you Me Ra for all you have done and continue to do.

  10. Michelle says:

    OK..sold, I am off to buy it!
    Me Ra..you’re awesome, you really do give so much of yourself to help so many women. Men too..since happy and fulfilled moms are happy wives!

  11. Julie Watts says:

    WoW Wow Wow! This post is doublely exciting, since Karen has coached me since you talked about her in October, and I already have this 101 kit (which was quite nourishing and calming to read). Can’t WAIT for the forum!!!!!

  12. Michelle says:

    I just have to give a quick review of the kit after getting it a couple hours ago. Wow..Me Ra..really. I have to admit, after spending the weekend at the Sonoma workshop and getting to chat with you a little at dinner,I was not sure there was anything more you could give me to aid me in my quest to be a happier mom in addition to become a better photographer..I was wrong. I read most of what you wrote with tears in my eyes..mainly happy ones. You’re writing is just beautiful and you offer so many ideas and important things to think about to help us find that elusive balance as well as find ourselves. You are so giving in this kit, and I can’t wait to have some quiet time to go back to the many things I highlighted to begin to act on them. I am looking forward to Wise Women 102.
    I think Brian need to work on a kit of how to be a supportive and biggest cheerleader of a husband!

  13. ohhhhh soooo cool…a forum to connect with the other MeRa Groupy mommies- would be fantastic! Half the fun of visiting your Blog is jumping around link after link to see what everyone is accomplishing and posting. I have learned so much from women I don’t even know! It would be wonderful to get to know some of them better and to be able, to inspire one other and have a Mommy/ Photographer’s support group at the click of a button. (Even Beyond what your blog does for us already:)

    And “Holy Cow” to have the privilege to hear from a business coach!( who specializes in coaching women CEO’s of Fortune 500 companies!!! That sounds Amazing! I love the catch phrase “Beyond Survival into Thriving!” That just makes me breath deep!

    Last mothers day my family ordered both the Portrait & Wedding 101 Kits for me. I must admit I have said a little prayer that maybe just maybe the Mom’s Survival 101 Kit is a gift idea.

    P.S. We all treasure you too MeRa…Happy Mother’s Day Ladies

  14. Michelle says:

    You truly have our best interest in mind at all times, don’t you?

    I went back and forth on whether to order the Mom’s Survival 101 kit and now after his entry, I have no doubt in my mind that I am going to order it!!

  15. not a mom but going to be a dad soon. you’ve got an excellent blog. thanks for sharing valuable insights and love your photography!!! kudos to you…

  16. Tony says:

    You have a wonderful support system, keep up the great work, love reading your blog

  17. ron storer says:

    i just love the way you think and process Me Ra. Excellent idea!

  18. Denise says:

    MeRa, Most business people would just shrug it off and say, “You can’t please everyone…” But the fact that you’re actually going an extra few thousand miles to please those people is just so sweet of you. I can see that you really do treasure each person that comes to your site 🙂

  19. Katie says:

    I just bought the Kit this past weekend at the San Diego workshop I can’t wait to crack it open and see what’s inside.
    Thank you so much for all you give.