From Divorce to Sword Fighting: Jami’s Empowering Path to Self-Discovery – Dallas Frisco Photographer – Me Ra Koh

Meet Jami, a woman who has faced adversity head-on and emerged stronger, with her tribe in tow and a warrior’s spirit. Spending time with Jami will move your soul and remind you of all the good parts of humanity. She is calm yet bold, gentle yet fierce. Jami is a warrior phoenix, and we are so honored to share her empowering path, a journey that took her from divorce to sword fighting and beyond.

A PHOENIX UNFOLDING

Jami’s journey of self-discovery is rich and multifaceted. In many ways, her journey began following a painful divorce, which served as a turning point in her life. Her path from divorce to sword fighting represents not just physical transformation but emotional healing and a renewed sense of identity. Her journey of healing, forgiveness, and self-discovery has been transformative, showing that even in the face of adversity, we can rise like a phoenix.

Emerging from the ashes as a true Aria…meaning lioness of God. Jami is embracing her identity as God’s daughter and a fierce protector in this new life she’s creating for her and her sons. This notion speaks volumes about how Jami sees her role in the lives of those around her—she is not only a mother but also a leader and guide, often helping others find their own strength. Jami also describes herself as having fierce femininity. She celebrates her strength without conforming to traditional femininity. Jami has redefined what it means to be feminine in a way that resonates with her personality. Her fierce femininity is not about being “girly” but embracing her powerful spirit.

PROTECTOR OF HER TRIBE

As part of her self-discovery, Jami stepped into the role of protector of her tribe, helping uplift and support her community. Her new identity as a warrior reflects her ability to face challenges head-on, much like her decision to embrace sword fighting—a powerful metaphor for her life. This unexpected yet empowering sport helped Jami find a sense of strength and identity, redefining what it means to be a feminine warrior. (Knowing all this, don’t you love how she SHINES?! She is just BEAUTIFUL!)

Through this transformation, guiding others, especially in navigating their struggles, Jami likens herself to a compass, becoming a guiding force for those around her. By sharing her story, she helps others find their paths and encourages them to embrace their journeys.

WHY SWORD FIGHTING

Inspired by the imagery of a warrior, Jami embraced sword fighting, finding empowerment in a traditionally male-dominated sport. Her experiences in tournaments bolstered her confidence and reinforced her identity as a warrior. Participating in these competitions has been transformative, allowing her to develop physical strength and mental resilience.

In our conversation, Jami reflected on the importance of seeing oneself through God’s eyes, capturing the joy and confidence that comes from embracing one’s true identity. She emphasizes that our identities are not defined by our past but shaped by our choices and actions moving forward. Her journey serves as a powerful reminder that we are all capable of growth and transformation.

A VENTURE OF PHOENIXES

After her painful divorce, Jami found solace and support in a group of women who shared similar experiences. Searching for peace and forgiveness, Jami took a pivotal trip to the Grand Canyon. She was gifted her Grandfather’s compass by her father, which ended up symbolizing her new role as a leader, guiding others in their journeys. This moment highlighted not only her personal struggles but also her capacity to turn those challenges into opportunities for growth and community support.

After hearing this story about Jami finding her tribe on this epic trip where a group of women bonded of shared trauma and healing, we were curious if there was a word for a group of phoenixes. Though this is a fictional, imagined animal, there is, in fact, a name! A large group of phoenixes are known as an odyssey, but a smaller group is known as a venture. A venture of phoenixes. This is so beautifully fitting as this small group of phoenixes rose from the ashes of their past lives with renewed hope and faith in a brighter future. They venture forward with hearts wide open and hand-in-hand with one another, a fortified venture of phoenixes.

Reflecting on her journey, Jami can see how far she has come since her divorce. Jami posted a photo of her Rising Phoenix wall art in our Rising Phoenix Facebook Group. She drove all the way from Kansas City to Frisco, TX! So we were ALL EXCITED to see how it turned out in her bedroom! We were blown away by what she shared about it! So beautiful and powerful!

HOW JAMI’S ARTWORK IMPACTS HER (and her sons)

“On Monday I received my Rising Phoenix Experience wall art and I absolutely LOVE it!! When a friend showed me a picture from her Rising Phoenix experience holding a sword, I knew it was something I wanted to do. After reading more about it I loved the idea even more and everything fell into place to make it happen. I am so glad it did. I would say the Rising Phoenix experience is one of my top 3 favorite adventures. Me Ra, Brian, Soy & Ginger are amazing and truly make it a unique experience to remember.

I think my 15yr old youngest son was just as excited as I was when the packages arrived. As I unpacked and hung each picture he periodically checked in to get sneak peeks of it. When I was finished I asked him which one was his favorite and he said the one with the big ol’ smile. My oldest son simply declared that it was badass and I was a badass mamma.

Later that night when I finally had a a quiet moment to take it in just for myself, I took a step back and paused and really took a look at myself and for the first time I realized I had come so much further than I had ever dreamt possible eight years ago when I had found myself sitting in a domestic abuse support group. If you had told me then of all the things I would accomplish such as becoming an avid hiker who would hike many trails, becoming a swordsman competing in competitions, making some amazing new friends all along the way and doing a photo shoot with my sword I would have thought you were crazy. But the me today, the me in these pictures, knows that anything is possible with just a little bit of faith.”

I LOVE hearing how much her sons LOVED their mom’s wall art! As young adults and teenagers, kids care about how their parents are doing. It’s so clear that this gives as much to them as their mamma! This is a testament to how Jami’s empowerment has impacted not just her life but her family’s as well.

WHAT KAT LOVES ABOUT JAMI

The top 3 qualities Kat sees in Jami is Courageous, Generous and Self-Aware. Kat admires Jami’s bravery in participating in sword fighting and overcoming fears. The courage it takes to show up, especially in a new environment, is commendable. Kat believes that Jami’s willingness to step into situations that intimidate her speaks volumes about her character. Her selflessness and willingness to uplift others shine through in her actions. Jami often puts the needs of others before her own, showing a level of empathy that draws people to her. Also, Kat says Jami’s ability to reflect and grow from her experiences is truly inspiring. Kat says that Jami has an incredible knack for understanding her feelings and motivations, which allows her to make conscious choices that align with her values.

We asked Kat what Jami’s superpower is and she said Resilience! Her resilience enables Jami to face challenges with strength and grace. Kat sees resilience as not just enduring hardships but thriving in spite of them. “A lot of people don’t have it. But she continues to conquer things, always looking ahead and lifting others up. That is resilience. Many would not have made it. But she has. She is powerful and she is strong. Jami is so kind and generous. Kindness and power don’t always go hand in hand, but with Jami, it does.”

Kat wants these photos to convey Jami’s powerful, strong nature intertwined with kindness. She wants Jami to realize that strength and compassion coexists beautifully within her and others see it.

WHAT MISSY LOVES ABOUT JAMI

Missy and Jami forged a deep friendship during their hiking trip in the Grand Canyon, where they supported each other through personal struggles. This shared experience helped them form a bond rooted in vulnerability and mutual support, which Missy believes are essential components of their strong friendship.

We asked Missy what her top 3 qualities for Jami are and she said Warrior, Strong and Selfless. Missy has witnessed Jami transform from a protective shell to a confident, purposeful individual. This evolution is not just a personal victory but serves as a testament to the strength of their friendship. Jami’s strength as a mother and friend inspires those around her. Missy admires how Jami navigates the challenges of motherhood while also being a supportive friend. Always the cheerleader, Missy says Jami supports her friends through both physical and emotional challenges. Her selflessness is evident in her willingness to sacrifice her own comfort for the well-being of others.

One of Missy’s favorite memories is when they were backpacking, and Jami carried part of her pack when she got overheated. This simple act of kindness solidified their friendship and showed how Jami instinctively checks in on the emotional and physical well-being of her friends. Missy believes Jami’s superpower is the laughter that brings joy to those around her, making her a delightful presence. She says that Jami’s humor serves as a powerful tool for connection and healing. Missy hopes Jami continues her adventurous spirit and embraces her boldness. She believes that Jami’s journey is only just beginning, and there are many more adventures to come.

WHAT LINDA LOVES ABOUT JAMI

Linda shares that her favorite qualities of Jami’s are Grounded, Bold and Encourager. Jami’s ability to remain steady in the face of challenges is admirable. Linda appreciates how Jami can maintain her composure and focus, even in stressful situations. Overcoming shyness, Jami now exemplifies boldness in her pursuits. Linda emphasizes how Jami has worked through her insecurities to become a role model for others. She inspires others to take action and make positive changes in their lives. Linda points out that Jami doesn’t just encourage with words but also leads by example, showing that change is possible.

Jami consistently provides support and perspective, helping her friends navigate difficult situations. Linda recalls times when Jami prompted her to confront her struggles and seek the truth, empowering her to move forward. She says Jami’s boldness and courage make her a catalyst for change in her community and this is her superpower. Linda admires how Jami initiates conversations and actions that inspire growth. Linda wants Jami to recognize her growth and the importance of her journey. She hopes that Jami continues to embrace her strength and the positive impact she has on others.

WHAT JENNIFER LOVES ABOUT JAMI

Jennifer’s top favorite qualities of Jamie’s are her quiet, persistent strength. Jami’s inner strength shines through as she navigates life’s challenges. Jennifer appreciates how Jami embodies a quiet resilience, showing that strength doesn’t always have to be loud. Her gentle leadership style fosters an environment of support and understanding. Jennifer notes that Jami’s words carry weight, and when she speaks, people listen.

The imagery of rising from the ashes reflects Jami’s journey of rebirth and growth. Jennifer sees Jami as a living example of resilience, showcasing the beauty that can come from hardship. Jami creates safe spaces for vulnerability, offering wisdom drawn from her own experiences. Jennifer shares how Jami’s support has profoundly impacted her life, helping her find clarity in difficult moments.

Linda believes Jami’s superpower is her calmness, which helps others find peace during turbulent times. Jennifer emphasizes how Jami can navigate chaos with grace, providing a sense of stability for those around her. Jennifer wishes for Jami to see herself as the powerful presence she is. She hopes that Jami continues to shine and embrace her leadership role in the community.

A TESTAMENT TO SELF DISCOVERY

Jami Davies’ journey is a remarkable testament to the power of self-discovery, resilience, and transformation. Her story, which took her from divorce to sword fighting, is an inspiring reminder that we are capable of rising from even the most challenging circumstances.

Her journey from divorce to sword fighting highlights how deeply personal struggles can lead to powerful growth and transformation. Jami’s story encourages us to embrace our own paths of self-discovery and to find empowerment in unexpected places, knowing that, like her, we all have the potential to rise as phoenixes from the ashes.

Are You Ready to Celebrate Your Strength and Resilience?

Many people feel self-conscious about celebrating themselves, worried they may seem vain. But your journey, your resilience, and your strength deserve to be honored.

You’ve spent so much time giving to others—now it’s time to invest in yourself. Whether you’ve overcome adversity, achieved a personal milestone, or need to see yourself in a new light, the Rising Phoenix Experience is for you.

Like Jami, Cherie, and others who have taken this courageous step, you’ll see the truth of who you are reflected back at you. It’s not about vanity—it’s about rising above the ashes and owning your strength.

What’s Included in Your Rising Phoenix Experience:

Personalized Consultation: Signature calls with you and your loved ones to capture the words that give you life.

Professional Styling: Hair, makeup, and wardrobe consultation.

Guided Photo Shoot: A transformative Rising Phoenix session with Me Ra Koh, where every detail—from lighting to posing—brings out your strength and beauty.

Cinematic Reveal: Same-day reveal and custom design session to create artwork that speaks truth to you every day.

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